September 26, 2017

..A Dress that Makes the Perfect Travel Buddy


I spent four days of last week in Charleston, SC for our one year anniversary trip, of which the first 12 hours were spent in this dress. I woke up at 6AM and flew in it, we got in super early so I walked all around downtown Charleston in it, I lunched at Poogan's Porch in it, and I even decided to forgoe an outfit change, threw some dry shampoo in my hair and wore it to dinner that night. A dress for literally all occasions - AND it's on sale right now with an extra 30% off. Feels soft like jammies but totally makes you look more put together. It's the perfect travel buddy.

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September 19, 2017

..Fashion Centre at Pentagon City Fall Ready Event!


Attention all my DC/VA locals! My favorite shopping destination, Fashion Centre at Pentagon City, is having a fun Fall Ready event this Saturday, September 23rd. You can find me in there at LEAST twice a month due to it's on point selections, closeness to my apartment & work (1100 S Hayes St, Arlington, VA 22202 if ya didn't know), and my Nespresso addiction. The event will feature a plethora of pop-up style stations, including beauty bars offering mini-makeovers, and the opportunity to peruse the season’s hottest trends. I desperately need a few new Fall pieces added to my beauty routine and closet. I will be there this weekend, if you see me please say hello! I will likely definitely be boot hunting. Some other things to note:

1. Fashion Centre at Pentagon City features over 170 stores, including anchors Nordstrom and Macy’s. The international shopping destination is also home to a variety of specialty stores ranging from fashion-forward shops, such as Armani Exchange, Superdry, Michael Kors, Stuart Weitzman and ELOQUII to celebrated favorites like Apple, Sephora and Victoria’s Secret.

2. You can also look forward to brand samplings from coveted brands such as Nordstrom, kate spade new york and Aveda.

3. (The best point) If you end up spending $150 or more at any Fashion Centre at Pentagon City store on Saturday, September 23 you will ALSO receive a fashionista cosmetic tote filled with complimentary goodies (Available while supplies last at Guest Services)!!

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September 14, 2017

.. One Year Down


Because today I am feeling very sappy about my one year anniversary I wanted to share some of my favorite portraits of just the two of us from our wedding day. When this goes live we will be on our anniversary vacation in Charleston, SC, hopefully eating a fancy meal and diving into our year old wedding cake before we go. It wasn't always easy (it never is when you meet at 19) but I wouldn't trade, change, or take any shortcuts to get me here. The last 10+ years have been a roller-coaster ride I wouldn't want to be on with anyone else. Cheers.

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September 12, 2017

..Gemini Party of Two


Hello friends, my name is Erin and I am a atrologic-holic. I just love anything that is sun sign related so I was super obsessed with these tees when they came out at J.Crew. I walked into my local one and they had EVERY single one in sock but mine so I kept going back until they had it. I do slightly resemble a camp counselor here (is camp counselor chic a thing? Like #athleisure?) but I don't mind. My little party of two toucans are too adorable to be mad at it.

I am a Gemini (air sign strong in communication) with a Leo rising (fire sign - basically a doctorate in empathy). Most everyone knows their sun sign but if you aren't sure about your rising (the way you express your sun sign) you can find out by checking out what time of day you were born and matching it to this chart. I am always fascinated by how to people of the same sun sign can be affected by their different rising signs! My husband is a Libra with Taurus rising which is basically a perfect compliment to mine and we didn't even plan it (wink).

Shop ALL the signs below! I am pretty obsessed with the Pisces, Sagittarius, Taurus, Aquarius are my favorites.


September 7, 2017

..Four Favorites

See all the "Four Favorites" series here.

1. I got this little "do your best" coaster for my desk at work and it really does put a little positive energy into my brain when I catch a glimpse of it!

2. I have these earrings in the lighter color (last seen here and here) and they just came out in gorgeous deeper hues, thinking they would be such a fun gift! I love mine.

3. My bestie just started a photography company Truly Gil Photography! She is going to be snapping our Christmas photos this year and I know it's early but I have been brainstorming ideas on my Pinerest page (here) for us and there are SO many cute dogs in wreaths I'm thinking I need to do this with Alba!

4. It's my own personal tradition to treat myself to a new pajama set each time I go on a vacation and even though its the end of summer I couldn't resist this cute lemon print set for our upcoming trip to Charleston.

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September 5, 2017

..On Haters


I have written in length about the battle with self-judgement (here) but for this month’s personal post I am talking about its bigger, scarier, and more destructive cousin – judging others.  I say more destructive because usually engaging in this kind of behavior ends up hurting not just that person but their loved ones and then even yourself when you look inward which means that brawl with self judgement is right around the corner anyway.

We all do it and we all love to do it. I am very guilty of turning on Bachelor in Paradise and going to TOWN on some of these people that are probably just trying to make it in a very competitive LA world (although they are making fun of themselves at the same time – which isn’t an excuse – but does make you feel less bad about it).

Honestly, when I think to myself “I really don’t like this person” or "they are so annoying" in a REAL way it’s usually because of something going on inside myself that's the true root of it. There are a few reality TV personalities, bloggers, and even regular people I know that that evoke this ugly feeling in me and when I stop to consider a common denominator it becomes clear that each one of them have do have something in common that urks me. Nine times out of ten when I feel the distaste start to bubble up, its over someone who is absolutely and unapologeticly confident in themselves and take unapologetic pride in their work. Key word being unapologetic (did I say that enough times yet?). Even if I don’t agree, these folks feel that way and are making it known – and can’t be persuaded otherwise. That “I am putting this work out there and it’s great” or “I am beautiful and I know it” or “I am the best at this so deal with it and get on board and admire it.”

WHY in the world should those qualities bother me? Aren’t they something to strive for? Yes! Everyone should be more confident in themselves and their work. It's something I consistently struggle with (hence the looooong self judgement post) and I think when I recognize it in another my initial reaction is to hate on it because in all realness – I am jealous that it comes so easily to them. Boom. Mind blown. To judge someone else is to judge yourself. I truly believe there is no way to pass a judgement on someone else without revealing something intimate about yourself which means you can’t do one without the other. Let me repeat that. YOU CAN'T DO ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER. 

I recently saw that one of my favorite bloggers was bullied on the blogger hate site we will not mention and it broke her. I don’t know this person at all on a personal level and I have been lucky enough to not experience anything like that (because I am a flea in the blogger world – I am sure they’d have lots to say if that weren’t the case) but seeing anyone be dismantled and crushed by a bunch of anonymous people, scrutinizing their every move and word is heartbreaking. Our flaws make us who we are. Our contrasting life choices make us who we are. Our different preferences make us who we are. We can not all follow the same set of life rules. We must be able to see and respect the beauty in variation. It’s okay to not vibe with every human you meet on a best friend level but we can definitely all be cordial to one another. We can all learn from one another. We can try to embrace the differences in one another. If someone is getting satisfaction or validation from putting someone else down – what does that really say about what is going on in their own heart?

It is so so very hard to take a step back and look at yourself from a different perspective and it takes practice to reach inside and figure out what exactly is eliciting that emotion from you, but it is so eye opening! I know I'm not the poster girl for exemplary behavior (like I said, I do watch trashy television and have many, many thoughts - don't even get me started on the Real Housewives franchise) but I think we can all strive to move closer to the goal post. Like your least favorite vegetable, it tastes bad going down but it's good for you in the end - your own soul multi-vitamin of sorts.

I know this is different form my normal posts, I try to put one out a month but if you want more of the deep stuff, you can find it here (where all my personal posts live).

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